Orgasms feel awesome, and sticking to what makes you orgasm is not wrong. However, you need to spice up your sex life a bit more. As you cannot stick to one kind of food or outfit, why should you stagnate on one thing that makes you orgasm, whereas there are lots of ways to get you there.
Expand your sexual boundaries by trying the following types of orgasms. But first thing first:
What Is an Orgasm?
An orgasm is when the body reflexes physically due to muscles tightening during sexual arousal and then relaxes through a series of rhythmic contractions.
Types of Orgasms and How to Attain Them
Here are types of orgasms you may want to try with your partner:
The Clitoral Orgasm
The clitoris is the sweetest spot for most women in terms of pleasure when it comes to the release of orgasm. Although the clitoral orgasm may be the most attainable kind, this most hidden and tiny piece is very individualistic. Women differ on the kind of touch they prefer to get to the climax.
The clitoris is made up of millions of nerve endings just like the penis, making it the most sensitive part of a person’s body. When touched, stroked, or caressed, the blood flow increases, making it engorge and in need of release.
How to Achieve Clitoral Orgasms
A clitoral orgasm can be attained by stimulating the clitoris glans, the part that can be seen on the top of the vulva. Some individuals like it when rubbed in a circular motion, some in and out, some in up and down motion, and others in vibration form.
You will notice the favorable motion for your partner depending on their reaction to your touch.
You can also access the internal part of the clit by inserting the fingers or a vibrator and press it on the roof of the vagina. Remember to use a rube for external clitoral massage for a smooth motion on sensitive parts.
It is often said to be the best way for an individual to orgasm, but actually, it’s the most difficult.
In the vagina wall, there is a point of pressure known as a G-spot. Upon hitting it with rhythmic strong pressure, it can lead to orgasm.
How to Do It
Use two fingers to penetrate the vaginal canal on the anterior wall where you feel the set-up of tissues. Stimulating this spot with hands or a device can lead to orgasm. G- spot stimulation will cause your partner to ejaculate because stimulates the Skene’s glands on the side of the urethra.
You might have sexual moments either alone or with someone where you enjoyed pleasuring different hot spots of your body. A blended orgasm is when two or more erogenous spots are stimulated, at a go, to trigger an orgasm.
The most common blended orgasm entails stimulation of the clit, G-spot, vagina, and nipples.
How to Achieve It
Attending different spots simultaneously is what you need to do. But you need to be gentle. In fact, you need to go slow and steady.
Have your partner use their mouth or hands on the nipples or the clit with a sucking motion. While on this, they can use a sex toy or hands to stimulate the G-spot and the vulva. Be slow to allow arousal to build up.
You already know that your nipples are one of the erogenous spots. They react once they are touched or stroked due to the lots of nerve endings and sensitive skin. A sexual touch on your nipples can send a signal to your clit.
Although some individuals can get the big O by getting their nipples touched, it is not clear which percentage of individuals can orgasm without visiting their “below the belt”.
But, if you think this can work for you, try it. With lots of kisses, caressing, and sucking of the nipples, you can get to the point of saying their name.
How to Do It:
The procedure is easy. Have your partner suck, caress, and touch your nipples in a way that you feel good and stimulated.
A-spot is similar to the G-spot and is also referred to as anterior fornix. It is found on the anterior wall of the vaginal canal and is much deeper in the canal closer to the cervix. An orgasm from its stimulation is also known as a deep vaginal erogenous zone orgasm.
How to Achieve It
Be in a position that enhances the depth to get to the spot easily. Use any position that brings your legs and knees closer to your chest for easy penetration to the spot.
Of course, you can climax while first asleep. When you are asleep, your body relaxes and is in a restorative state. This makes the body to be much more easily aroused. In case you are dreaming about sex or erotic stimuli, your body is likely to trigger an orgasm through the occurrence in the dream.
How to Do It
This type of orgasm cannot be actively pursued. You need to be turned on before bed or focus on sexual fantasies to evoke an emotional and physical response.
Any Type of Orgasms Are Pleasurable
Whether soft kisses, ride with the fingers, sex toys or intercourse gets you to the climax, you should try a variety of things. It’s also important to know that varieties of factors like hormone level, emotional state, arousal level, among others, can influence your orgasm.
Each climax can be different in terms of pleasure and duration depending on the body part being aroused.
Whether it’s clitoral massage, pressure on the walls of the vagina, nipple caressing, they can all lead to orgasm because they all connect to the major nerves in the pelvic area that connects them to the brain.
In the end, orgasm will still be a pleasure making you undress before your partner after a long day.